There was a song that moved me deeply and I "dedicated" it to the other, who met it with no interested, not even the normal intrigue of having someone "dedicate" a song to you, which was so contrary to the assurance of being tangled under covers–new song on replay–marveling at how it had captured us so perfectly, and the whole episode left me deeply saddened and wondering why I participate in something that is so void of the many wonderful connections that lovers share.