Monthly Archives: October 2026

Things in Nature Merely Grow by Yiyun Li

What a gorgeous book! It builds and escalates to a conclusion that I found to be incredibly poignant and insightful. Things in Nature Merely Grow by Yiyun Li is a meditation on life and death by suicide, especially on the topic of parents losing children to suicide.

I imagine that this book might reach those parents who have experienced something similar. The act of writing it seemed…a humanitarian endeavor. Even without experiencing those things myself, I hope I am wiser and more compassionate for having read it.

I do not seek out sensitive topics naturally, but I trusted Yiyun Li entirely to guide me through, and so she did. I do not feel sad or worse for having read it. In fact, I feel just the opposite.

Famesick by Lena Dunham

I’m a fan of Tiny Furniture, Girls, Not That Kind of Girl, and now Famesick. Lena Dunham is the voice of my generation. That might sound crazy coming from someone from the rural west, while Dunham is from the urban east coast, but she so honestly captures a kind of worry, a kind of secret angst, a kind of neuroses that I think is universal–though certainly felt to differing degrees–especially, perhaps, of the modern day heterosexual female.

I was about a quarter of the way through Famesick when it was announced that there would be a Girls reboot, and I am thrilled by that. I hope that Dunham continues to make movies and shows and write books in between. I am especially a fan of the books, naturally, but the movie making and the fame really does seem to offer such fodder for her life and a window for insight.

Now, she is a new mother, I see, and I cannot wait to read what I hope will be a book about motherhood.

Thanatographies by Yanara Friedland

It’s been a few months since I’ve posted! I read this book, Thanatographies, by Yanara Friedland. I found myself wanting to spend time in the book, to savor the scenes, thoughts, and feelings that the author conveyed, and so I did. I loved the first story and wanted the book to be a novel that is continually based around the room, but alas.